It's 8 a.m your alarm is ringing, getting late still want to sleep? 1:30 a.m need to wake up early but still can't sleep? Everything in this universe is made up of energies: negativity, positivity, stress, tension, love, hate "everything". Quantum physics states that "One person can be at five different places at the same time"; there are infinite possibilities, in one universe you are living the life you desire, and in the other everything is falling apart. If you want to manifest anything give it out first the happier you are the happier your future, the tenser you are the harder the future. If you love someone feel it like they are loving you back already because if you can't be happy without them, you can't be happy with them.
Self-realization is the hardest but the most important one. If you accept this and you try to be the best possible version of yourself you will attract the person you desire. Give out love to them and believe in the universe and let it play its magic. Sometimes a person feels "How can we trust something which we can't see or hear" before thinking about this, ask yourself "Who am I not to trust?" Be happy in your present to manifest an amazing future.