As a teen, I’ve realized how much speaking up matters. In the beginning, I used to stay quiet, thinking others would talk better than me or say what I wanted to say. But slowly, I noticed that if I don’t speak, people don’t really know what I think or feel. Being vocal isn’t about showing off — it’s about expressing who you are, and not being afraid of it.

In school, there are so many events — debates, competitions, group projects — and all of them need you to be confident. I remember times I really wanted to join in or share something, but I stayed silent because I was scared of being judged or messing up. But the few times I did try, even if I was nervous or stumbled, I felt proud after. It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being brave enough to try.

Even while making friends, being vocal helps a lot. You can’t always wait for someone else to talk to you first. A simple “hey” or just saying something funny can start a friendship. When you speak, people get to know the real you, not just the quiet version of you sitting there. That’s how real connections start — and those matter a lot more than we realise.

Classrooms also need confidence. If you never raise your hand, share an idea, or take part in a discussion, people assume you have nothing to say — even if you actually have great thoughts. I’ve seen how one small comment in class can make the teacher notice you and classmates start to listen more. That little moment can boost your belief in yourself.

As we grow older, confidence becomes even more important. Whether it’s applying to colleges, giving interviews, speaking in front of others, or even talking to someone new — it all needs vocal strength. You could be really smart or talented, but if you can’t express it, others might not see it. And that’s not fair to you or your potential.

Confidence isn’t only about big moments, though. It shows up in daily life too. Asking questions when you don’t understand something, placing your own order at a café, giving your opinion in a group, or standing up when something feels wrong — these things matter. They help you slowly build your voice and trust it.

Of course, I’m still learning. Some days, I overthink and stay quiet. I replay what I could have said. But I’m realizing that no one is confident all the time. It’s something you keep working on. Every time you choose to speak — even if it’s small — you’re becoming more comfortable in your skin.

So if you’re like me and get nervous sometimes, that’s okay. We all do. Just don’t let fear keep you from growing. Start small — speak up once, share one thought, try one thing. Your voice matters more than you think. And the more you use it, the more powerful it becomes.